So lately I have this friend and things have gone down hill big time in the friendship. For a couple of months every time I'm with her ALL we do is talk about guys. Nothing else. She is always telling me about how she needs a boyfriend and how I need to find her one. That she is tired of being alone and needs a boyfriend. It has gotten to the point of just being annoying to the point where I can't handle it anymore. I don't want to be the one who is the hook up girl who hooks people up. That's not me. I strongly believe in just letting things happen and making your own efforts at things. If things are ment to be it will happen. If it's not ment to be then move on. Things will get better. But no matter what she doesn't think they will. She is convinced that she will be alone forever.
She has also been telling me all the time that I'm not allowed to flirt with guys, that I can't go on dates, that I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend, get engaged, married till she gets married. She says it's just joking but the fact that she has been saying it for so long and all the time proves to me that she is just selfish. Wants all the attention and needs a guy but is to lazy to go out and get her own. It is something that is not just annoying but it hurts. She doesn't realize how much it hurts me to hear her say that to me. She thinks it's not that big of a deal and that I have no idea what sarcasm is.
She has also told me that I think that EVERY guy flirts with me. No matter who the guy is if he talks to me she thinks that I think that is flirting. It's not. I know what flirting is. It's not my fault that there is lots of guys who do flirt with me. I don't choose who flirts with me. I have and never will think that every guy flirts with me.
She finds it annoying how when I get a date and I tell her but yet she tells me when she gets a date and who it's with and stuff. I find this plain out immature. A girl should be allowed to go on a date and tell her friends who she considers good friends about how the date went. She shouldn't have to keep her life that consists of dating and stuff to herself. It's not right. Girls like to talk about this stuff. I should know cause I'm a girl.
One thing that just set me off today is when she told me how I think I'm prettier then all the other girls out there. Which is not true. There are MANY girls out there who I think are very pretty and would love to hear tips on beauty from them. This just ticks me off. She thinks I'm self centered when I'm not. I'm loving and care for people. It also bugs me how she is always saying how she is not pretty and stuff when she is. I'm just tired of her doing stuff like this to me. I can't handle it.
There is so much that is going on and I'm just done with it. This is the majority of what is going on with her and me. I'm done with it. I blocked her on Facebook today and blocked her number from texting/calling me. If she is going to treat me like trash and put me down trying to hurt my feelings then I'm not going to talk to her.
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